I finally did it!

I believe that I feel in love with my husband whilst he never actually loved me. He was using me the whole time.

I would always go above and beyond whilst he basically wouldn’t move an inch.

I picked up on this 8 years into our marriage. Something just clicked and I knew that he’s just a user and abuser.

I put in place a plan.
1- get a education
2- get a job
3- save enough money to be able to leave.

1 week ago I told him that I’ve had enough and he’s no longer needed. I pointed out all the reasons as to why I believed that he doesn’t love me.

It’s been 5 days without him and it’s amazing. The feeling is fantastic.

I feel like a burden has been lifted and I’m no longer suppressing feeling of neglect.

I’m hopeful that I’ll meet someone one day who’ll love me but until then I’m enjoying this new chapter. ✌🏼