Hormonal crankiness for 38 year old

Lately I get cranky, really cranky! For example even the way my husband drinks his coffee makes me want to rage, which is ridiculous and unlike me. It seems to fluctuate but around the time of my period gets worse. Oh and I’m tired extremely tired! I feel like it could be Hormonal as I’ve also started getting night sweats. I’m 38. I went off the pill a few years ago and noticed this significantly get worse then. Would going back on the pill level things out? Tests come back normal thyroid etc. thanks ladies