Im so done i am so sick of my partner groping my vagina we could be anywhere he will hug me be all sweet then bam hands trying to get in my pants i say no then i get come on 5 min i refuse and walk away then ofcourse i get the do you still love me do you still want this or me?? I look at him and say if i didnt want to be here with you id leave if i didnt love you i wouldn't be here..
then last night he tried to turn it back on me by saying its funny how you dont want to be touched i know you have no undies under your work shorts (now to clarify i have lj shorts with built in tights i never wear undies under my active wear its uncomfortable) but this apparently means i wanna be treated that way wtf????
We have been together for almost 10yrs but he is still like this teenage boy that thinks pulling at my pants and putting his fingers near my vagina is affectionate i have explained so many times it makes me feel like a peice of meat and just a root to him.
Now i dont want flowers and shit im not a very lovey dovey person never have been i love the small things like help support being surprised with going out for dinner and he has sorted the kids for once we have 4..
I want to be treated like i actually matter and have a purpose not just a mum and a root.
Am i over reacting?? Or would you all feel the same??
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I’d feel exactly the same !!!
his behaviour is disgusting and his failure to learn from your reactions is telling me there is something wrong with him!
I’d have honestly left him.
Id be telling him if that inappropriate behaviour doesnt stop NOW, then i will be leaving because its disgusting and degrading. And you wont stand for ir any longer.
You've been with him ten years, so has he done this for ten years or is it recent? As my answer will change depending on the response. Either way hes being a pig, but the rest of my answer will depend on how long it's been going on for and how often u actually tell him to fuck off and NO.
In the beginning sex was great it was flirty and fun i had alot of womens issues along the way where sex equalled pain 7 years to be exact.. however now that its all fixed and he thinks i should have the old sex drive back.. im tired i work all the time and dont stop when i get home he is helpful with the kids and sometimes helps with dinner or cooks for us all which is great..
The groping has been going on for about 6 or 7 months now well gotten worse and in the beginning i laughed it off that didnt last long now i say stop it no im so not in the mood..
I cant have a shower without him watching me then he leaves for work when im getting out of the shower he will kiss me then kiss each nipple (hes saying goodbye to the twins) his words..
I love this man but he is making himself so unattractive to me with this crap
My hubby does an ass slap and grab. He thinks its foreplay until I do it back and hes like wtf. Not a gentle slap a full on whack followedby a grab of ass. I bitched for years and he finally is starting to get it. No sex for those that think I can respond with a howdy dody with that.