Is it still love....

Anon Imperfect Mum

Is it still love....

How do you know when you're still in love? Am i here because I love him, or because its comfortable or because im scared of life without him.....how does a girl know??

Posted in:  Relationships & Marriage

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Love changes over time. It’s rarely all butterflies and deep feelings. It’s okay to be comfortable, if relationships didn’t have a level of comfort involved then we’d all be emotional wrecks, because people can’t sustain that level of intensity.
You don’t have to have the answers today unless you are getting married tomorrow or you are talking about having babies or buying a house.
The important thing to ask today is 1) does he treat me with respect and 2) do I treat him with respect.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Love is comfortable. For me.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Exactly!

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