What's the norm. I know every one will look a little different but just curious.
Living together 3 years, 2 children from a previous relationship for me and 1 newborn together.
Ive tried having these conversations but i don't know how too and it never seems to sit right or go anywhere.
He works full time, i was casual up to 25 hours p/w now on maternity leave. Recieve some clink support all up earn around 800 p/ w
He basically has worked out have the rent, pays half the electricity when the bill comes in and i think its $80 towards food all up he gives me $250 a week towards bills. Our rent is $340. He earns around $700 and i literally have no idea what he does with the rest. Ive brought up saving, where it goes etc. He has a car loan which he pays all at once monthly , no insurance, prepaid mobile. Have tried budgeting ideas but falls on death ears, i hate to nag.
I pay my share of electricity, rent, my phone bill and home internet combined on a plan, all kids day care, school fees, clothes, christmas gifts etc, pretty much everything else, my car loan, my insurance l, water, medical bills/ costs etc i know 2 arent his but after 3 years is this expected? Bio dad isnt involved and doesn't provide support. I rarely have any money to save amd constantly working q budget, breaking the budget to do something family fun.
I have never been in a normal relationship as previous was dv and ex didnt work and i paid everything.
In a normal "" rship what does it look like when it comes to finances.
It worries me because whilst not there yet, id like to get married, buy a house, buisness prospects, share finances but doesn't seem to be maturing naturally??
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