Hi ladies, tonight I’m feeling really broken. The guy that ended it with me a couple of months ago, told me he’s going on a few dates this weekend. I feel so numb, it’s Friday night and I’m home with my kids and I started thinking of the times we spent together with the kids, I have no one now, I feel bloody lonely 😔 pissed off that I’m not enough and he’s out dating other women. What the hell? How do I feel better about this situation.
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You stop contacting him. Block him on social media and on your phone.
You guys aren’t together anymore. He can date who ever he likes and it’s only natural that one or both of you would start dating again.
You sound like you have a lot of trouble letting go of past relationships and I think you could benefit from some mental support. Please speak to your GP.
How do you even know this. Hard facts hurt, so stop contacting him. You know he's on the market and you are too. You look to the future and know you'll meet someone that's right for you. It's not him.
By the way being alone isn't a punishment. If you're lonely, call your friends, call up old friends and catch up, go out where people are, go on online dating sites. But your first goal should be to use this time to set your life up just how you want it - so you enjoy your weekends.
Stop talking to him!
He's SO eager to make you jealous and he's succeeding. Tell him you don't give a fuck
Or he feels the message isn't getting through and she's not moving on so after months, he's gone the harsh route of saying he is dating.
Stop contacting him. He either thinks you're completely OK with knowing he's dating again or he's trying to make you jealous by telling you. Either way it's making you feel horrible so you don't need to know, let him go completely.
He broke up with you, why are you still in contact? I would be ending all forms of contact with him and just get on with my life.
Relationships end, and unfortunately this one was "it" for you.
And you're not alone, you've got your kids. Have fun with them.
I’m wondering if this is the sugarworld lady again. 😢
If it’s who I think it is, it’s time to stop contact with this guy. He’s not for you, and trying to be friends isn’t helping you move past it.
He is trying to make it clear to you that the relationship is truly finished.
I’m very concerned for you, it doesn’t sound like you are coping with the breakup. Please speak to your GP about your mental health.
And please stop trying to be ‘friends’ with this guy. You are not his friend, you are his ex.
Time to let it go. The ex as friends ship has sailed. He's telling you in no uncertain terms that the 2 of you are over and he is moving on.
I would say it’s his way of saying, stop contacting me.
He’s making it as painful as possible but she’s just not getting the hint.
He sounds like a twat. I wouldn't keep in touch. Was it his idea to keep in contact or yours?
Either way, he's a twat.