I think my partner and I have some kind of issue with our sex life.I say I think we do as I have no problems with me and my sex drive but my partner just seems to not want to have sex with me anymore.But it’s ok for him to ask for head and to not give anything in return except a quick blink and you miss it fuck.
He can take along time to get hard when he wants a bj and I try not to take it personally but anytime I try to broach the subject relating to any possible issues with our sex life,I get called mean or he just shuts down and doesn’t communicate.I know if he is having ed issues it could be hard and embarrassing for him to talk to me about it..but how can something be fixed if he won’t talk to me.The only comment I got from him was “well you could initiate it too”.. I actually have and do but I get shut down and then I feel like shit and wonder why he doesn’t want to be intimate anymore that much.Im worried that he is either into porn too much and I just don’t turn him on the way he needs or he is getting it from someone else.If either of these things have any truth particularly the sex with someone else(I don’t really think it’s this but still a thought) I want to be able to look at the relationship and whether to continue it.We have never had any issues with our sex life untill recently.
Partner doesn’t seem into sex anymore
Partner doesn’t seem into sex anymore
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He needs to go and get a check up and make sure he gets his probate checked!
*prostate
But yes, I agree!
Personally I’d stop giving him BJs!
Sorry, but it sounds like he is being very disrespectful to you and nothing you have described sounds like a healthy sexual relationship.
You certainly won’t get him to get help or improve the situation by giving BJs.
If he watches a lot of porn he could have desensitised himself, he could also have health issues going on.
But your first step is you not participating in a sex life that’s not respectful and mutually satisfying to you both.
No more BJs for him!
If he can't give you anything, why should he get something?
I have a partner like this! 😡😡😡
He has depression and is on medication, but it was like this before that.
He'd whinge about not getting a BJ in months, but when I did force myself to give him one, he couldn't stay hard or cum. Hence why I don't give them anymore.
Whinged about me not initiating, but when you're rejected 99% of the time, you don't bother anymore.
I get sex maybe once a month if I'm lucky. I think about other men to get me off.
He masturbates to porn multiple times a month.
He isn't cheating, I know for fact. (He's with me nearly 100% of the time he's not at work).
Honestly, if I had employment, I would dump his arse.
You've obviously got problems elsewhere in your relationship like I do.
But I would first start with a trip to the doctor to check for depression.