How to ask husband for a trial separation?
We have been together for almost 10 yrs.
We have our own little tribe.
How do I make him understand that I'm heading towards a mental break down and it's mostly his fault.
He does bugger all for our kids, our house.
I cooks, clean, do everything for our kids.
Yes he works full times and is Our main source of income but why is that more important than what I do? I also study and loving it. But again it mean nothing to him that I try to better myself, I have no friends close to talk too no family to talk too I'm socially awkward.
I'm going insane always asking for him and specifically asking for things to be down and them never being done until I'm screaming like a banshee. I get ignored all the time. Help me how do I do this?
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Lose your mind and book a week or two visiting a friend/family or holiday. Let him know it's breaking point.
Don’t ask, tell him. Just say it.
We are going to separate because we don’t work as a team. Done..
What about couples counselling? For him to actually take you seriously. Leaving him won't change that you do all of this alone, you'll still be doing just as much :(
I almost could have posted this. I have been with my partner 12 years and he does nothing around the house. I am so close to snapping but we have an overseas holiday booked for 3 weeks. I need to stay strong until then, then I think I'll just tell him I'm taking the kids and going.
My ex believed that all he had to do was work, while I looked after kids, house, him and work part time. I was exhausted and I left. I was so used to doing everything on my own especially looking after kids, being on my own wasn't harder. It was easier because I didn't have him to look after and he was high maintenance lol
Can you go visit your family for a break away? Get some space to clear your head?