Why do men keep dirty pics and videos of their ex partners on their phone?There is such a thing called looking at pornhub isn’t there?
Is it just me or is it highly disrespectful to have sexual pics from ex partners and a threesome video not even using a condom.Some of the pics where right along side our family ones.
How would you feel if your partner done this and what would your reaction be?I get everyone has a past but to have things like that after years is beyond me.Why and should I ask him to get rid of them?I know the sneaky bastard will just hide them on his laptop etc so that’s why I haven’t said get ride of them..yet.
Parter has dirty pics and videos of ex partners
Parter has dirty pics and videos of ex partners
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Sounds like you've been together for a few years and have a few kids... I think the time has past where he is actually going to take your request seriously.
Does he know you know the photos are there?
Yes he does as I have tried to have a mature conversation about it.All I Got was him changing his passcode and trying to turn the tables on me and tell me that I’d have worse on my phone.He knows my passcode but is now denying that he does as I have told him to look through my phone anytime he feels the need to as I have never had anything to hide.I only have a passcode on my phone to stop my kids using it without my permission
Either way it’s disgusting. But the fact that he has kept them knowing you want him to delete them is horrible and shows that he has no respect for you as his partner or mother of his children. What a gross person he is. I’m sure his ex wouldn’t want him still having those photos. The only reason I can even think of why he has kept them is to wank over
He is a disgusting selfish pig.. he hasn’t considered you and your feelings. Want a grub.! I’d piss my husband off if he did that. Grose!
Yuk, so disrespectful to the exes and you.
Does he have any other skeletons in the closet?
Even if he locks it down and puts it away, isn't that still the better option? He should have done it himself but if you feel it's disrespectful and want them gone then yes you should speak up.
No acceptable on many levels.
He wouldn’t be my partner. It’s disgusting, gross and highly disrespectful to you and his exes.
Disgusting, does he use them to wank to or just pulls it out to show his mates? So disrespectful to you and whoever is in the videos/photos.
Totally wrong. Has he not updated phones in your time together?
It’s disgusting and disrespectful. Honestly it should’ve been nipped in the bud as soon as it came to light. I’m petty af, I’d have asked once, if it wasn’t dealt with I’d have wiped the entire contents of his phone and laptop, then his iCloud accounts. You should not have to ask more than once. Men really can be dumb as dog shit when it comes to respect
Yuk that would be a deal breaker for me. What a disrespectful pig..!! They are exes for a reason. He has you!
You deserve better than this and I hope you know that xx
Hugely disrespectful!! What an A Hole! The fact that you're calling him a sneaky bastard, kind of says it all! Move on to someone who will treat you with the respect you deserve.