I'm after some really helpful information. Me and my partner are TTC, that's not what I need help with, what I do need help with is how do I stop letting TTC become my every thought. I am forever searching for things online, wondering what every little twinge in my body is, getting really down on myself when it doesn't happen every month. how do I distract myself enough to stop it consuming me? I don't want to be so wrapped up in it that it stops our chances of conceiving. I have a full time job so its not like i'm at home all day searching for things online but it does take up a lot of my thoughts. Of course my partner and I are both very excited to be TTC but I just cant seem to relax and let things happen. Please help.
Thank you all very much :)
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I've been there before it took us 15 months to conceive and after being told I was infertile because I wasn't ovulating I think my whole world shattered! we got engaged and I started planning the wedding and to be honest I think that's what did it, we got referred to a gyno and he did an internal scan and told me I was ovulating and that was my now 9mo daughter! I know its hard but you do really need to find something to distract yourself with, find a hobby that doesn't revolve around having a baby and I know how hard it is when people tell you "stop thinking about it and it will happen" but its the truth its hard but you will get there!