Hi All, so my baby daddy and i broke up over a year ago, in august we had intercourse for 2 weeks and stopped, i went in for testings and was told i had chlamydia. I had my treatment and informed him. In april this year he left his partner and came back to us (his family). We had unprotected again as he told me he was clean. Turns out he thought i was joking to shit stir him when id told him that he had given me chlamydia last year. So we both were tested and treated for it - again.. After my daughter was born, she is 2 and 3months, i had the bar put in before i left hospital. I had a period for 4 months then nothing for nearly 2 years. Since i had chlamydia the second time, i have been having a "period?" More often then not. In roughly 6-7 weeks I've bleed for roughly 5 of them. It goes light almost stops then comes back. It usually comes back worse after sex. I thought it was the unprotected sex it was happening but this morning we had sex with protection and within 1hr i was bleeding again. I just went to gey a second std test to makensure i am actually clear after the tablets. But has anyone else actually experienced this?
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I'd see a gyno for a full check up. It's quite possible the Implanon has stopped your periods but you know your body, if something doesn't feel right get it checked!
Definitely sounds like the bar is the culprit but get checked again for any more STI’s and have a Pap smear if you haven’t had one in a while.
And remember you can carry chlamydia in the back of your throat for years without knowing from giving oral sex to your partner , so you could even be reinfecting yourself and not even know it by giving him oral and then having unprotected intercourse, therefore passing the infection back and forth to each other . A simple swab of your throat at the drs is all that is needed , but you have to request it as it’s not a standard STI procedure.
Urghhh...you have bigger problems than an std, he told you he was clean, what was this based on? He’s a liar and willing to put your health at risk with absolute disregard to your wellbeing. I don’t believe for a second he thought you were joking, he just didn’t care and probably knowingly infected others. So he has unprotected sex with other people, I would either get rid of him or resign myself to monthly std checks. Yuk!