Wandering eye... I want to want my husband

Anon Imperfect Mum

Wandering eye... I want to want my husband

Hubby and I have been married for 5 years and together another 5. We have two beautiful children and a great life together. There is nothing I can put my finger on that is "wrong" (maybe lacking some quality intimacy but we still find time at least once per week); however, I have struggled with thoughts of wanting to be with and see other people for a long while. I have not, and would not, act on it and I desperately want to want my husband but I'm not sure how to stop myself feeling this way. Are there any suggestions?!

Posted in:  Relationships & Marriage, Self Care, Behaviour

2 Replies

Anon Imperfect Mum

Role play? Meet hubby out for dates more often and pretend to be different people.. hit on each other. Are you acting sexy around him... the more you give the more you get back when it comes to intimacy I find.

like
Anon Imperfect Mum

It’s a mind over matter thing. A grass is greener thing. So easy to get stuck in your own head about things.
I do this occasionally but then I decide enough is enough and force myself to stop thinking about crap and focus my thoughts on him

like