Hi IM's,
I need some advice. Can I please have some help and advice on how to leave my partner, father of my 2 children (aged 8 and 9). He has stated on numerous occasions he will kill me if I leave and if we break up that he will take our son, not our daughter. I am getting scared for our safety. He is constantly accusing me of cheating on him, even when I am at work he rings and asks why I am moaning and what am I really doing. He peaks through the door when I am on the toilet and goes through my phone. He smokes drugs and drinks and no matter how many times I try to talk to him, I am the bad guy. I know what I need to do but I am just so scared to make any moves out of fear, please help mummies. I am suffering mentally, I can't sleep, Ive lost my appetite and losing weight. The kids keep asking for him to move out I am just scared as when I have said it before he punched holes in the walls. I am scared.
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Go to the police immediately if what you are saying is this extreme .
Also take out a restraining order . This all gives you enough time to call a women’s refuge and a help line for further information . Then get the hell out if there . Don’t delay .
We want to hear ‘from’ you , not ‘about’ you .
You need to go to the police and report this now.... you need to protect you and your children. Please please please do this my friend didn’t not survive this situation. I know you are scared and this is hard but you have strength so pull all that strength and go and report this get a avo
Search the DV post from yesterday. Has all info needed.
You need to be EXTREMELY careful. Get all your ducks in a row, without him know. Get the kids passports, your passport out of the home and get some money together and somewhere safe where he can't get it. Go to the police and tell them what you have told us. Do NOT tell him you are leaving!!!! Just GO when you are safe to and get the kids and yourself out of this toxic situation asap!!!!