Am I being unreasonable

Anon Imperfect Mum

Am I being unreasonable

Am I being unreasonable? I lost my job and now at home full time, I cook, clean do all the washing and everything else during the day. The only thing I asked my partner to do is wash the dishes and mow the lawn when needed.

Even when I was working full time I was the only one who cooked, cleaned and done the washing he washed the dishes.

Tonight I asked him to wash the dishes as they had been sitting there since last night (normally I get sick of looking at them and I just wash them myself) now he isn’t talking to me because I am being unreasonable by expecting him to wash dishes. When I pointed out I do everything else now and when I was working full time he said it’s because he is tired from work. When I was working I left at 6am in the morning and didn’t get home till 8pm, he was home by 4pm and used to just sit and play video games.

I honestly don’t thInk I’m asking too much by asking that the dishes get washed daily or am I in the wrong ?

Posted in:  Relationships & Marriage, Behaviour

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Anon Imperfect Mum

He’s being an arse. The only thing you e done wrong is allow it to go on this long.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

No you definitely are not being unreasonable.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

No, he’s just a lazy entitled man baby 👶 🍼

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Anon Imperfect Mum

My partners the same 🙄 so lazy! I do everything from cooking to dishes to lawns to rubbish all I ask him to do is lawns and rubbish and he can’t even do that I get sick of looking at it and do it myself usually!

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Nope, you are meant to be a team. Not his servant.

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