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I’ve had crappy 2years my husband had affair for 10 months, we separated, I ended up pregnant, we got back together, making it work . We been together for 13 years and 4 kids.
Then my partner complains to me about my cooking, don’t wrap his lunch up, don’t wash his clothes in time, me taking his moments away from talking one to one with kids because I had to. Give baby to him so I could cook dinner, tells me I can’t make coffee, it’s y fault our baby is unwell. We don’t sleep in same bed for about 2 years.
Says he does everything but I drive him to his mates let him drink, I give him money Togo out(but if I ask for money I have to pay him back), let him go away with his mates on camping trips. Sometimes spends his money on himself but when I buy the birthday presents with my money wants me to tell the kids we bought it but he will spend his money on pokies for going out mates.
We fight about Something every day , I’ve moved on from bad thoughts and all I want is a life good life. I love him but I think I love the man before these two years .
Don’t think cope on my own? I always wanted a great future with him. I think I’m great doing great job as mum and partner but I can’t handle his put down on me.anyone esle living like me? I thought I was strong but I’m weak.
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You are very very strong. I couldn’t live with a man like that. My self esteem would have been torn to shreds and on the floor by now.
Life will be much much easier and nicer without him pulling you down ALL the time. Of course you can do it on your own. You won’t be listening to him pull you down all the time.
BTW what you have described is a form of abuse. Financial, emotional, psychological, it’s all abuse. Don’t let your kids grow up thinking it’s how people should live.
Youd cope a shittonne better on your own that this , this is on your own with someone beaiting you down daily, its an extra weight a huge stress.
sounds like you took himback just because, but you shouldnt have. What a prick, complaining about sandwiches, he was dicking someone else for almost a year!!
Trust me you wont miss this, its time to get out of there
It would be easier on your own!!!!! Is he punishing you for his fuck ups? He is abusing you and u don't deserve that. Nobody does. Personally I'd kick him out. Nobody can be happy when they are put down constantly,Treated like a slave, and abused because he's a fucking wanker... Making that decision to leave is hard.. But once you do... U will find it much easier without his verbal abuse... I'd suggest you go see a councillor hun, you have children... Do u want them to treat others like this or others to treat them like that... I know I definitely wouldn't and kids often mimic what they see and hear