Update to unpaid child support.

Edit: I didn't write in saying I was the most hard done by person and that's what people seemed to think. I wrote in because the child support system is messed up and needs to be fixed. I'm just frustrated at the system.

OMG! I am speechless at the responses to my post. Some of you seriously need a reality check and the way you speak is disgusting. Making crap up just baffles me because you don't even know half of it. First off I am no means well off. We don't eat out, I don't buy myself clothes shoes etc, I don't drink alcohol at all, I don't go out partying, our groceries are shopped with savvy ideas to ensure my child can have those extra curricular activities. I work so I'm not sitting on my arse on Centrelink and actually never have!(no I do not think that's what everyone does but that is what was implied in some comments) I have an auto immune disease but still get up everyday and work. Second would you send your child to see their father if there are domestic violence orders with your child listed? Funny thing is ive written in before about stopping contact and you know what everyone told me I was wrong for trying to facilitate contact. And I'm sure some of you who commented would have commented on my stopping contact posts. Would you send your child who had been smacked so hard it left a bruise and clear hand mark? Would you send your child when you know your ex does drugs and drink and drug drives. Has been charged with driving while under the influence recently. Has been in jail numerous times on drug chargers and got charged with manslaughter for killing someone on purpose? Would you send your child when you've spoken with ex partners since your seperation and the violence to them was so horrific they were hospiatalised for a week? Would you send your child when there is possible sexual abuse? Your child is receiving councilling for. I could write so many other things but you know what the point is im not being a spiteful cow I'm protecting my child from harm! I was that ex that thought he had every right to his child. Little did I know everything about him and what he had done and what was to happen to myself and our child. I was that person who tried to get him to fight for his children because I believed what he told me. And you know what? I will forever feel guilty for the stress and fear I put not only on the ex but on her children as well because I now realise just how much she was protecting them!
So yes he should pay child support to enable our child to do things. I got left with thousands and thousands of dollars debt just so I could escape. It wasn't worth fighting over I needed to get us out. Yes he should pay child support to pay for our daughter. I'm not sitting here drinking the money away or even spending it on me! I'm here giving my daughter what I can in life. No he doesn't pay any money for those children because they are either too old or the ex stopped collecting it. Does he stop paying to try and gain control back sure does! You know how I know? Because he has said numerous times he doesn't care what financial impact anything has on me I can suffer and struggle financially. Didn't matter that it would mean his child would go without. He just doesn't care.
So I hope that all you people that commented think before you judge someone when you don't even know half of it. And I hope that your child or yourself never have to experience what we have. Watching your daughter wet her pants and act out or verbally say she doesn't want to see her father. Once you've experienced this come back and tell me I'm in the wrong for being angry that he doesn't pay child support on time. This wasn't the first time and I'm sure not the last he's been months behind at times.
Btw it was not a work holiday because he made that clear too. He doesn't do tax return etc just so frustrated with the system and people took it upon themselves to attack me