Struggling with finances and kids

Anon Imperfect Mum

Struggling with finances and kids

I'm just wanting know how other mum's manage financially hubby works we are partnered with centerlink so currently youngest child is 2 I'm struggling financially and am wanting to work but dont have any family support around at all both my parents have passed if I work full time daycare is expensive but have no body to help watch 2 yr old. How do other mums manage I don't want to be financially reliant on hubby

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Anon Imperfect Mum

You can get two full days of daycare nearly 90percent paid by centrelink depending on your financial situation. I would call and ask about that. Would mean you could get work for 2 days. Or get a job thats night shift or on weekends? Working from home is difficult but an option for small amount of income

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I worked a couple of late night shifts at the supermarket for awhile. It have me some pocket money and my son was asleep at that time.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I would look at doing things like family day care, or even as a previous poster said - doing night shift at supermarket, or even waitressing.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I work night fill at a major supermarket, it's not exactly interesting BUT it's exercise and no childcare fees, I work nights normally 8pm-2 or 9-5am, or the weekend shifts when hubby is home, money is good because of after 12 loading. Hubby has had to be understanding that when I need a nap I NEED a nap but it her than that ith as been a great flexible job.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Change your mindset- financially reliant on hubby ? I don't understand... You are a partnership you have a child whom he works outside providing income- you work inside providing for your family - no income but not worthless either. Your position is very important to your family - it wouldn't function without you... If you add what you do to a wage your worth would be substantial!!! Enough said - I have 3 kids how did we manage ? - we worked together as a family unit - it is not one man for himself!!!

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I work 3 days a week my kids are 2 and 8 months I had no choice as hubby lost his job and had to take anything he could get with the rebate childcare cost me $50 per child per day we struggle even with my income I do not know how other family's do ot

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