How to solve Problem private parts

Anon Imperfect Mum

How to solve Problem private parts

Sorry for to much information but ever since having kids I have a fat top part of my vagina,it's at the very top it's puffy fat and I think it's gross., i think of it as a fat fanny. Is there exercises i can do for my vagina to shrink in size & look normal ? What actually causes a fat fanny? Has any other mums had this problem, I loved when I was a teenager how petite & small my vagina looked now this is effecting my sex life as I find it embarrassing.
I'm a single mum of 3 and I don't want a guy to judge me because of how I look downstairs. Please help

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Are you overweight or carrying weight in other areas? If not I would go see your doctor about this as there is a concern it could be a medical condition. Could it be your uterus didn't shrink back down after birth? I don't know if there is much exercise you can do for that specific region. Good luck!

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Yeah I'm overweight about 20kgs overweight

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Weightless will improve it. If you have empty skin after the weight loss a tummy tuck will also help.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I'm a mum of one and about 10kgs overweight. I used to be 40kgs overwieght before I had my bub. I have exactly the same thing. The area is called the 'mons pubis'. Mine has got smaller since I've lost 30kgs but it's still there and very obvious if I wear tight clothing. The only thing that'll help is to do exercise especially cardio to get rid of extra fat. I feel your pain! I have to be very careful with clothing choices. I'm embarrassed about it but it has never affected my sex life. I've been with a few guys and none have ever mentioned it and ive never bought it up. My vagina still works, I'm just carrying extra weight. I was more embarrassed about the midwives seeing it than a partner haha!

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Yep I've seen that on DR Rays shows on foxtel. He calls it a "fat fanny mound " and he says liposuction is really the only answer if u are already at an ideal weight as it's not a body part that can really be worked, but he says if u are generally over weight with weightloss in general it will decrease :)
I always worry about the state of me after 2 kids with bad tears and always joke to my husband that if we ever divorce I'll never get laid again, he says that no guy is going to turn down Awsome sex over a scar and that to them a vagina is a vagina so hope that helps bring u some comfort knowing no guy worth seeing your bits will really care :)

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Yep! I have one as well! But apparently my mum and sister do too! I guess it's body shape/ genetics
I always joke about fat fanny
Before I had my daughter I lost 30 kilos, it did shrink but was still fat unfortunately
Now having had my daughter it's fat again!

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