How do I move forward? I married a guy who had 3 kids 11, 16, 18 they were always horrible to me in my home when they came to stay no matter how hard I tried still just basic hello polite but nothing else. one came to live with us and is good now. The others I just give up on now. We have a child together but he always drinking or punting, doesn't be a father much although wanted more kids. We both work have great jobs but I just have zero respect for him now. His kids have witnessed over the 10 years 2 big fights whilst his full after he had been out on piss for 2 days and spent every cent (before baby came) and ran back told his family how horrible I am and now they don't talk to me or Bub. He just sided with his kids and says you were shit to me those days. I think that I was justified to not let him in after he didn't come home for 2 days kids or not. I feel so shocked that these people I'm related to don't know me at all and think how horrible I am. Forgetting he is a drunk on the piss all the time. All because these kids (mind you have sworn and woke me and baby up at 2am in morning drunk etc) say I'm a mad person. I'm a sociable friendly person and always thanked for doing great things so it hurts me more they think I'm an arse. Will I go to the Xmas and show face for once or just don't go again and stuff them. I just feel for my lil girl won't ever know them
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I'll be blunt. Don't go to Christmas...stuff them! You might think about it all day but it will be better than going and being insulted. Secondly good riddance that your little girl won't get to know them. Really will they add anything positive to her development? If not then it's their loss.
Seriously? Why would you want to go? Why would you care about saving face for anyone? Why would you want your little girl to know horrible people?
Show your little girl that she should have respect for herself and not allow people to treat her mum that way!