4th baby

Anon Imperfect Mum

4th baby

Hi, I've just found out I'm pregnant with a forth baby. I am freaking out to say the least as this wasn't planned. I'm only 2-3 weeks and am considering an abortion. I don't think I can physically or mentally have another one. I'm not sure what I'm asking I think I'm just in shock.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

This is only something you and your partner can decide. Good luck

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Very personal decision. But I chose to terminate my fourth pregnancy as three children is plenty for my household. The procedure was very straight forward and painless and I haven't ever regretted my decision. Just a sense of relief. Good luck in your choices :)

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Anon Imperfect Mum

As others have said its a very personal choice and it is a decision only you and your husband/partner can make. Whatever your decision goodluck.
On a side note though prehapes you and you partner should be looking at different alternatives for birth control to prevent another accident happening again.
Goodluck mama its not an easy position to be in. X

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Florina Iute

I believe the baby is here for a reason He or she has already a heart bea. It's a little person that has the right to live like any of us! Once you get through the shock as suggested above you will see from a different approch

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Im in the same boat. Im 10 weeks pregnant with my 4th our 5th altogether. I found out 4 weeks ago and I still haven't really come to terms with it. Im freaking the fuck out! But i know that everything will be ok.
I had an abortion many years ago and I regret it to this day. Please if that's the path you choose make sure you get some counseling first.
Ive always said you never regret the kids you have but you will regret the ones you dont have.
Good luck xx

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