End Planning

Anon Imperfect Mum

End Planning

How do I plan my funeral to go how I want it? The music I want, people I don't want there, basically the running from start to finish because obviously I won't be there to make sure it happens. Do I just write it all down and hope for the best?
How do I make myself uncontactable and no way for people to be able to follow people up that I have been in contact with? Politely say as of said date I will no longer be available on this number? Get rid of my sim card completely?

Posted in:  Self Care

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Are you planning to harm yourself? Please ring lifeline and speak to your doctor, or present ar hospital xxxx

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Is everything ok?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Alarm bells are ringing with this post.
Please get help xx

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Hello op. With the funeral arrangements you choose an executor of your will. You need to write a will and have it signed, you can buy them in the post office and have a jp sign it.
You name the executor (ask them and let them know its them).
I dont understand the second part could you clarify what you mean?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

You can plan your entire funeral with a funeral home years and years in advance. Old people do it all the time so not to burden any family members with it. You can pay for the entire thing and when you die obviously someone in your family will need to be aware of which funeral home this was organised with so they can ring them.

I agree with other posters, I hope you're not planning on harming yourself, and that you're just super organised instead? But don't want your family thinking you're morbid or anything? Please don't hurt yourself.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

I hope u r OK
Please ask for help

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