Why does my honesty get me nowhere in life?
Im too honest with guys & all they do is lie & bullshit me.
They never apologise for their own wrong doings, yet if l do wrong, l deeply apologise. Why cant they own up to their mistakes & lies?
Why are these men so damn selfish? Im nowhere like them, never think of my own self as they do.
How do l learn to keep things to myself more & not be so open & honest?
So tired of being so truthfully open & honest while these so called boyfriends/partner just be so secretive & lie.
It really hurts & its getting to the stage l cant trust any males anymore. Its hard to let it all go, as they expect me to.
Feels like lm meant to just be single for the rest of my life & just raise my 2 kids alone.
Seeing a Psychologist is not really helpful.
Hating secretive men & their lies
Hating secretive men & their lies
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Sounds like you are staying in these relationships too long. If a guy is being secretive or isn't open and honest then that's a signal they aren't ready for a healthy relationship. If you see it early move on! Don't ignore the red flags.
There is nothing wrong with being single, in fact I love being single. Sure if the right bloke comes along then I'm open to that, but in the meantime anytime a douche tries to work his way into my life, it's really easy to tell them where to go.