I feel ashamed
Hi
I have 2 kids youngest being 7 months. I have been single for over a year now. I'm not interested in a relationship just yet, I'm still learning to be on my own after 8 years with my ex.
I have met a guy and it's pretty much just casual fun. I don't have feelings towards him at all. We didn't talk for a while and he recently got in contact with me asking to 'hang' out again. But I feel like a bad disgusting mum by doing this. I have never had this person near my kids or come to my house.
Am I allowed this fun or am I being well a tart and an embarrassment to my kids?
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You are not a bad mum, you have nothing to be ashamed of. You are entitled to a bit of fun and sex. I've certainly done the same thing.
Just because you are a mum doesn't mean you become a nun. I don't even know how your kids would know about it unless you tell them. You are entitled to a private life apart from your children.
Nothing to be embarrassed about AT ALL.
Oh my gosh. How dare you do something for yourself you selfish tart you!
My opinion is absolutely you're allowed to have some fun. No one is getting hurt.
Just keep yourself safe and enjoy ?