I posted about a week ago saying that my husband has told me that since giving birth down there doesnt feel right and is off putting during sex.
First of all, a big F you to all of you who called him a jerk. HE WAS NOT BEING HORRIBLE! He was actually conserned that something is going on. Most of you should be absolutely ashamed of yourselves. How dare you bash my husband! Id expect this behaviour from child, not adults! I came to this page thinking that someone might have thought of something we hadnt to see if something was wrong or just how it is now. Shame on you!
He knows full well that things change after pushing a watermelon out which is why he took 2 years to tell me!
To those with helpful commets, thankyou. Ive been back to my dr and it turns out i have a slight prolaspe and that is what my husband has been feeling.
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Geez look at the way you worded your posts maybe state next time why you are writing in properly we don't have a magic 8 ball to shake and know everything
No excuse for the behaviour and abuse in most of those comments. They assumed he was being rude, i never said he was
I think with having sex 3-4 times a week why is he complaining. It can't be that bad. Since I had my #2 I'm so bloody self conscious about down ther that anything they feels wrong is an instant turn off. I'd give anything to have sex 3-4 times a week but I can't and I'm lucky for once a month...there is noises down there now and it makes me cry. For me your post was asking an unusual question.....maybe things don't feel right for him........but in all honesty if it was terrible he wouldn't be sleeping with you....I think his issue is psychological or you have a prolaps which is why it feels different for him. Ask you gp or gyno.
No a big F you to you!
I was trying to be helpful and supportive.
When a woman writes ' my husband told me it feels different down there and its putting him off sex' it sounds horrible! We cant tell the tone so you need to write it better.
ALSO you CLEARLY stated that you had been for a checkup and that everything was fine!! So with that information we were left to assume your vagina was fine and your husband was being silly.
Why bother coming back here to abuse people who were only trying to help you?
Calling him a jerk and an asshole... exactly how is that helpful? Not once did i say he was being rude. Not once did i say my feelings were hurt. Not once did i say anything about him being rude. You assumed he was being an ass. Thats not my fault.
I also suggested you get checked for a prolapse...and guess what i was correct.
So you're welcome.