How can I let my abusive ex see our daughter safely? we have a lot going on atm. ive taken out a vro against him, court isn't till next week and I cant get a certificate from the mediation officers to start the court process till the vro gets granted.
I also reported the abuse to the police and he is avoiding them. I just cant help but feel so guilty that he cant see out daughter.
do I need a court order to start supervised visitation? or can I just contact a centre? how do I go about this?
he also sent me an email this morning telling me he is not leaving the state... would this be enough grounds for me to apply for sole custody?
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This is a bit confusing, in one breath you want to find a way for him to see her you cant wait a week, in the next you consider sole custody.
I think you might be acting out of guilt, which isnt a healthy view to make decisions from. If he is inclined to see her, its up to him to make the calls and arrange it. You should not contact him and just wait until court and the vro and everything is in place.