Hi ladies please no judgment as I'm already upset and crying. Last nov my bf gave my chlamydia and I got treated and we recently worked things out. I got teased again when I got my Pap smear and it came back positive. My doctor sounded angry on the phone and my bf is denying he has it. I don't really have a question just more feeling so dirty and disgusted with myself.
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Was he new bf last nov or did he cheat? Your bf isnt getting treated? Youre continuing to sleep with him anyway and got reinfected? Or is he trying to confuse you so you tin its all from the first time and dont catch him out cheating? No wonder your doctor is frustrated :( dont feel bad, or dirty, but you have to take control and care of your health and safety. He needs to be tested and treated, or no sexy time with you, that should motivate him. its your health at stake.
I think "teased" should be "tested"
Ohhh makes more sense thanks. Edited my response
Time to kick your boyfriend out. If you had chlamydia and were treated but he wasn't he would have reinfected you.
Time to get rid of him once and for all. You don't deserve this. You are not dirty, just too nice
If you have chlamydia you both have to be treated at the same time.
I've had it before too. I didn't even know. My partner and I decided to do a full STI check not long after we started dating (so we could have unprotected sex. He'd had a vasectomy so pregnancy wasn't an issue) I did a blood test and it came back negative but said I'd had it in the past. I must have had antibiotics and got rid of it.
My ex would have been the one who shared it (nice of him I know). He didn't tell me he had it.
My current partner and I both had a dose of the antibiotics anyway just to be safe.
This was my post he lied to me and said he had been tested and apparently didn't have it. But I wasn't with anyone else. As soon as I thought I had it again I ended it but when I told him what my doctor said he blamed me and put me Diana. I'm
Just feeling horrible about it all.
It's frustrating. I recently got diagnosed with herpes. Ironically I haven't had sex in 12 months.
It's just one of those things and says nothing about you as a person. The only thing it says about you is that you had sex with a person who had chlamydia. That is all that it says.
People who have sex only once can catch an STD, it's unfortunate but you are not dirty and chlamydia is easily treated.
You can move past this and live a very happy life. And think how nice it will be to be free of that asshole.
Did he get treated for it at the same time as you did? He probably has given it to you again. Take him to the doctors to get checked again if you have it, he will have it. Get treated and find out where you got if from. Sometimes it has to be treated twice to get rid of it completely.
When I was pregnant with our first child and I had all thoseblood test that they do, the Chlamydia one cane back positive. So the doctor said my partner had to be tested and treated too.
So he went and got tested that day (and he did because i was there for the results) and his test result was negative! So I must have had it for a while from a previous relationship and somehow hadnt infecting him! Which was weird but apparently it happens.
Anyway your boyfriend actually HAS to be tested. He cant just deny he has it without medical proof. Thats just immature and irresponsible.
And love dont feel bad its not a big deal, its easily treated, but your boyfriend needs to be treated too at the same time otherwise he will just infect u again.