Personal experiences please!! I know this question is asked a lot, I'm just hoping that ladies in similar situations can share their story.
I'm a very happily married mum to a 3 year old and a 3 month old. I'm 39 and I thought we were done having kids. My hubby is booked in to see a specialist for a vasectomy at the end of the month.
We had a scare last week, but the pregnancy tests were negative and I've since got my period (yes, even with a breastfed bub).
The thought of having a third actually made me happy but we only have a small 3 bedroom home and would need to upsize both cars.
I loathe being pregnant but breeze through delivery. My youngest is also the perfect baby - sleeps through, feeds well and laughs all day.
I don't want to use any permanent or semi permanent form of contraception for me.
Question - am I just thinking about a third child because of the impending vasectomy? Have others gone through with vasectomy and regretted it? If you went for a third, did you upsize anything? Or am I still clucky over my perfect bub and my very loudly ticking clock?

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I just found out I'm pregnant with my third and on shock! I loved the idea but now it's my reality... Wow just wow.. I don't know how I feel about this! I'm keeping an eye in this post for advice as well. Sorry mines not useful but let me tell ya, I'm happy with my life now and finding this out has caused overthinking and stress.
Ask him not to have it. You may possibly both want more children in the future. You can use other.forms of contraception