Torn with decision for another baby
I'm so torn at them moment with a feeling of wanting another baby. I have been blessed with a beautiful intelligent little girl who has just started school and have an amazing husband who gives us the world however is in a high demand government job and is away a lot. A few years ago I needed surgery on my spin resulting in being told I could never have children again and my heart being broken into a million dollars pieces. Everything went downhill I became depressed with everything and my health got worse. My husband booked in for a vasectomy as we couldn't have any more kids and this near broke me. Recently I got given the opportunity to fuse my spine which will give me quality of life and opportunity to have another baby. I have now gone through with surgery and my husbands vasectomy appointment is creeping up and I don't know how to feel about this. If I stopped the appointment and decided to try there would be a 6 -7 year difference between age for a child and I was blessed to be able to have the most amazing child that was the perfect baby and the most amazing child. Do we tempt fate and try again or just go through with the vasectomy. My husband said he would wait but what is there to wait for? I have this feeling of wanting a baby seeing baby clothes and pregnant and having a butterfly feeling or wanting another but don't know and don't know if that feeling will go away.
I guess has anyone been in this position
Do you have kids that far apart and how do they interact.
1 Replies
I answered this question earlier, in about 7 days it will be posted to Facebook if you are looking for more responses.
But honestly age gap, who cares! If you want another baby and can have one, and your hubby is all for it why not???? My friend just had her third her eldest two are 7 and 10 and are gorgeous big brothers.