Hi mummas,
I'm currently 33 weeks pregnant and I have lost all type of motivation!. I used to want so much for myself and family and make it happen now I just don't care. I look and feel horrible most of the time and I care but yet I still do nothing about it. This is my second pregnancy and I still worked took care of myself and my family with the first. I just can't seem to find any motivation!!.
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Normal. Give yourself a break. What's the worst that could happen if you let go and do nothing at all but care for you baby and child (and self!) at this time.
Give yourself a break mumma. You're growing another human being! As well as looking after your first. That's got to be tiring physically and emotionally. I found during my pregnancy that my motivation ebbed and flowed. Sometimes from hour to hour! I generally had the rule that as long the dogs had been walked, there were clean clothes in the cupboard, the house looked generally tidy and tea was cooked then everything else was a bonus. Maybe start small with doing something for yourself - go for a half hour walk in the morning, spend 5 minutes putting on makeup, soak in the bath at night - whatever it is that gives you some time to relax and feel better about yourself. Just take some pressure off yourself x
Don't worry I'm only just over 7 weeks along and my whole life's a mess haha all I want to do is sleep eat giggle with the little ones and sleep some more hubby doesn't pitch in with anything but money so I don't worry about it if he doesn't like it he can up n do stuff himself lol I'm also a bit sour towards the male species whoops hormones suck