So just a bit of background, I left my husband a while ago because I was unhappy in my marriage. I had tried for some time to make it work including counselling. It was a very difficult time, especially for my pre-teen kids.
Fast forward some time, and I fell in love with my best friend. We are very happy, however I have not felt it is the right time to tell my children about her. They see her all of the time and like her and her children a lot and the children get along really well.
I want to tell the world how I feel about her, but don't know when is a good time to tell my kids. As far as my kids are concerned my separation from their father hasn't been very long as they weren't aware of what was going on for some time. I'm really worried about how they will take the news, whether they will be upset/angry/confused. I guess I would be worried even if I was seeing someone of the opposite sex, because of the fact that I have moved on, but this situation is an extra consideration to think about.
Has anyone else been through this? How did it go? How did you tell your kids?
I guess I just need some guidance on when and how......
Thanks
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No advice but just wanted to wish you the best ? You've found happiness again & that's an awesome thing! I'm sure your kids will be happy for you, even if it does take a little bit. xxx
I havent been through this but in my opinion everybody deseves to be loved. You said they where pre teens perhaps sit them down and talk to them about what sort of couples they see in life that a couple isnt always female and male. Once they understand that i would slowly let them know about your new partner. I honestly think the last thing they will worry about is the fact shes female and more the fact that mum is moving on from dad. Best of luck