Hi everyone,
My partner and I are wanting to have a third child. Problem is I have a little girl (2) with special needs not walking yet, my partner doesn't have a license so i am taking and picking him up 5-6 days a week. I feel that if I get severe morning sickness our household will not cope, we have a 6 year old as well who also needs to go to school, and a long list of appointments. What are your thoughts? Any helpful ideas? I was severely sick my my first for months, second wasn't as bad. I know I can get a script for neasea tablets, But want to do my pregnancy without any medicines as I am so scared that I will have another child with special needs. (We don't have a cause for our girls disability, doctors say 'could have been a fluke').
Thanks.
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I agree with you. If age isn't an issue for you I'd definitely wait. I'd want my partner to be at the very least getting himself to work and back, preferably having his licence.
I'd wait, if you're still young enough to. It sounds like your family is a bit stretched in terms of time and its current needs.
Is your partner not having a license a temporary thing? Can he get a license in the future? Even him having the ability to take your oldest to school and himself to work would take the pressure off immensely.
Wait, your hubby NEEDS to get his license first and foremost. You need to think long and hard about how you will cope with a special needs child and baby who needs your full attention.
Personally, and this is only my opinion, I think you should just enjoy the two children you already have.