I have been part of this online community for almost a year and over time I have seen some nasty responses to people's questions and I'm asking why? There is no reason to get frustrated and nasty. If there is a certain post that upsets you or you don't fully understand what the poster is saying take a step back and remember a time when you were feeling stressed and vulnerable, then if you still can't provide supportive and encouraging advice, scroll on. It's horrible that some women have been torn to shreds for reaching out for help, only for others to respond with frustration and hostility, the very thing thesw women are trying to escape.
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Yeah! What you said!
I also find it strange when you answer someone's question, perhaps needing more information, and the Op never replies.. So you don't know if the reply was helpful.
At times I've said something blunt. Sometimes it's helpful to say it how it is but - never nasty. If I can't offer some advice that is constructive and supportive I'll scroll on.
Some women don't have anyone to talk to. No one to ask advice about stuff. I've been there and been torn to shreds on here.
It is incredibly hurtful.
I agree. If you're advice isn't coming from a place in your heart that is offering advice with the intent to be kind then please don't offer it.