So I've been with this man on/off for 5 years, I have a 6 year old daughter (he isn't her bio father). He lives with his parents ( his choice) he'll stay over two or three times a week. He calls me names, s**t, tells me I'm ugly, I'm fat, no one will ever love me if he was to leave me...but than apologises afterwards saying he only said it cause he was angry... I have been so unhappy the last two years, he comes and goes as he pleases, does exactly what he wants... Has even spoken/met up with number pis amount of girls since we've been together... Constantly breaks up with me all the time then comes crawling back a week or two later saying he loves me and wants me, has no relationship with my daughter what so ever... Why am I too scared to leave him? I'm worried about being alone forever but at the same time I'm already alone pretty much..... Why can't I leave?
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You are not this guys door mat. I would be getting his stuff putting it on the front lawn telling him to come get it and never come back. Even if your single at least you will be single and happy rather than in a relationship and misrable.
You'll be so alone while you're holding onto him.
Take the plunge. Cut him off. You'll remember your list of what you want in a man and put yourself out there to actually meet him. It's never going to happen while this dickheads hanging around. You got to get rid if him first.
I'd rather be alone than be treated like that. Remember your daughter is learning that this is how men should teach her. What you do about this will teach her how to behave around men who treat her badly.
Go speak to your GP about getting some counselling.