Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Please help. I have a 17yo son who is diagnosed adhd, autism (high functioning) and defiance. He takes medication but has been hiding it or not taking it. He is all of a sudden refusing to go to school. That’s not the main issue. The biggest issue now is he is violent. If he isn’t getting his way...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi sisterhood. I desperately need some objective ideas and ways to navigate a narcissist. He is an ex of 4 years. Very toxic, controlling and manipulative. Our children are early teens now. I have open and honestly tried every type of way to deal with his ongoing patronising behaviour, gaslighting...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Advice please. No idea how to deal with this. Stepchild and my son both 13 recently purchased motorbikes. My son worked and saved and paid for all himself. Stepsons father paid for his. Yesterday sons bike wouldn’t go so couldn’t use it. Stepson said to my son “dad said to watch you with my fuel...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How do I end a relationship without the guilt. Back story is I own the house. He has 2 kids fulltime and one every weekend Friday to Sunday. Houses are extremely hard to find in our area. I want our relationship over and him and his kids to move out but I feel so guilty about it all. When he moved...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi sisters! I’ve been struggling with my teen boy, he is 18 in a few weeks. I have just got back from a 6 night holiday with my girlfriends. I spoke to my teen before I left and said, 1. No mates over, later agreed to one here and there but no sleepovers, 2. He asked for my car keys to move my car...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My partners ex has just got in touch with me after kicking their 15 year old son out and saying she can have nothing further to do with him. She said the reason was that he told his 4 year old brother to “suck my penis” continually and made other sexual comments. My dilemma is he now lives with...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I was hoping for some guidance on any resilience camps for teenage boys? I spoke to my sons psychologist and she agreed it would be a good idea for him to attend one. I would preferably like something approximately a week and in Victoria. My son is addicted to technology and he has very little self...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi all! I am after some advice on my teen. Thanku 😘 1. What time do you expect your teen around 15 yrs old to have lights out? 2. What are your expectations around devices at night eg I ask for phone at about 8-8:30 to be in my bedroom. 3. Do you check your teens device/s or do you think that is an...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have two kids week on week off. Hubby has two kids that live with us full time and another that comes over every second weekend. The weekends we have all kids we can’t do much as his young one is 5 and I don’t want to be rude but is a sook. Won’t go to the beach, won’t swim, won’t walk, won’t...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Need some advice. I have 13yr old twin girls, their father just had a stint in jail for 8 months due to some dv. Not against us but against his new family. I’ve been asking them for weeks if they want to see him or talk to him for Father’s Day at least and they just say no, why would I want to do...