Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
I need help with my teenage daughter. I’m really not asking to be shamed for asking but I need to do something. My daughter is 15 and has body issues. So much so, that a few months back I found that she was cutting. She is overweight. She was 89kgs a few weeks ago. She eats more than her dad. She...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I need help with my teenage daughter. I’m really not asking to be shamed for asking but I need to do something. My daughter is 15 and has body issues. So much so, that a few months back I found that she was cutting. She is overweight. She was 89kgs a few weeks ago. She eats more than her dad. She...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi all, My 14 year old daughter is coming to live with me and my partner full time shortly. She has only ever come for short visits during school holidays due to relocation etc. During these times I pretty much did not expect a lot from her. I treated it as a holiday and never expected her to do...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Help! I’m a single working mum. I have 2 daughters and a son. My oldest daughter is nearly 14 and seems intent on destroying me. She attacks me. She has reported me for abusing her- so I had to install cameras to prove my innocence. I am constantly berated and intimidated, threatened, harassed. I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi ladies, I’m really needing some advice here. My son has ADHD and ASD. Im from Australia so we may have different policies and procedures etc. I’m unsure exactly. But my son (12) was bullied for a year straight by the same two boys, who often would drag other boys involved in this. My son has...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm just beginning my journey into raising teenagers, I have 2 tweens currently that are generally really good kids. Today I ended up rather heated debate about drug testing teens with a couple of friends. Completely unbeknownst to me, you can apparently buy drug testing kits from most pharmacies...
Anon Imperfect Mum
This may be a bit long & all over the place as I'm not sure where to start or how much to say... but bear with me lol. My son (18) starting dating a girl (also 18) about 4 months ago. My husband does not like her. She lives at home with her mum & neither of them work... just sit on the dole...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Ok so it’s been bought to my attention that my 19 year old is selling herself online. Photos of boobs for cash. As far as I know it’s just this but who knows. What do I do ? what can I do she is an “adult” besides tell her to have some respect for herself and she is putting herself in danger, what...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How do I “deal” with this. How do I help my child. Her father told her “if it wasn’t for you kids I would kill myself”. She had started pulling away from him, not wanting to go every 2nd weekend to his place. Not feeling like a priority in his life. His money would be spent on alcohol and himself...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My 16 year old son keeps on manipulating me or even lying to me. We have cought him out so many times that even the psychiatrist confirmed it. I can't carry on like this anymore. I do not trust him at all. I have 2 other boys and no problem like this which means it ends up me treating them...