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Wednesday, 16 October 2024 - 14:54
I'll try and make this short and without sounding completely selfish. Married for 12 years with 4 kids. My husband has always been very emotional (paranoid, very low self-esteem, negative, cynical) and I have always been the opposite, but we've slowly figured each other out and it's no longer as...
Friday, 11 October 2024 - 07:45
Coercive control/ abuse continuing after divorce. Help please. After many years of verbal/ emotional abuse, I finally got up the courage 2.5 years ago to leave my abusive ex. He was only ever abusive to me, not my sons and the boys tell me he hasn't been abusive to them since. We have a parenting...
Tuesday, 8 October 2024 - 10:50
Hi, I have been separated for going onto 6 years now, from a narcissistic man who destroyed me for over 8 years in our relationship and who continues to successfully do so, even now. I have completed parenting courses, conflict in family courses, emotional training, shark cage/DV courses, and many...
Monday, 7 October 2024 - 14:44
I feel like there is something wrong with me. My family are very against this and I guess it’s ingrained into me that it’s not normal. I have ALWAYS right from a young as looked at females and found them more attractive than males. The older I’m getting the more I wonder what life would be like if...
Saturday, 5 October 2024 - 02:19
My husband and I have been together since we were 16 (20 years together). We were each others firsts. We have 3 teenagers together. Our sex life was great until after our youngest was born 11 years ago. In the last 2-3 years we may only have sex once a month to even every 3 months. When we are...
Saturday, 5 October 2024 - 02:09
My husband and I have been together since we were 16 (20 years together). We were each others first. We have have 3 teenage children. Our sex life was great before our youngest was born 11 years ago and in the last 2-3 years it has gone down hill. We have sex maybe once every month or so. Sometimes...
Thursday, 3 October 2024 - 20:09
I don’t think my partner and I are on the same retirement page, and I’m not sure we will be ever so I wonder what I am in for, or am I just overthinking it all. I’m 5 years off retirement. Through early vigilance and good decision making, I have a respectable enough super balance to be able to...
Sunday, 29 September 2024 - 06:04
My partner and I have 3kids two are his we have them full time and one newborn. We are due to get married soon. But I am really struggling as soon as the weekend hits my partner drinks most Friday and Saturday nights and I end up having to look after him because he gets so bad he vomits. I’m lucky...
Friday, 20 September 2024 - 15:07
Double standards are whack…why is it when women cheat on a bloke, other women ask what he did to her to make her cheat? Is always “happy women don’t look elsewhere” and “he did something to make her do it” Whereas when a man cheats he’s a filthy cnt who can’t keep his d in his pants. Either way, no...
Thursday, 19 September 2024 - 20:48
I’m in a relationship with someone who has been badly hurt in the past. His first love cheated on him and ended up marrying the other bloke, and they’re now raising his daughters together. His second partner also cheated on him. As a result, he has severe trust issues and finds it hard to accept...