Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
In the midst of trying to work out visitation for a breastfed newborn. I know this is something I should be discussing with him, and I will I’m just at my wits end because even trying to update him about how my pregnancy is going he just doesn't care, he constantly text to say how is the baby so it...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello all! I am a mum of boys... 3 beautiful boys. Hubby and I are considering having 1 more. I get asked all the time, ‘will you try for a girl?’ Is there actually a way to try for a girl? Have you tried with success? What are the tricks. I would be so blessed to have a baby boy or girl. I’m just...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Does anyone else feel this way. I’m currently 14 weeks pregnant. And since getting pregnant, I havnt felt like myself. Not the usual nausea, exhaustion ect (which has been horrid) but as in yourself, I don’t feel like me, I’m anxious all the time, nervous energy yet no motivation, don’t enjoy my...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Has anybody HAD to lose weight while pregnant. I have just found out I’m pregnant again but I’m already very over weight. I normally gain 20kgs each pregnancy so if I do the same this time it will take me up to about 150kgs. I will be making an appointment to see my gp and will be asking him. But I...
I may be freaking out a little sharing this but if it helps just one person it’s worth it!!! A year ago today I escaped from a life that was the earthly version of hell, not knowing where I was headed or what was going to happen I packed up my beautiful babies and whatever else I could in the...
Anon Imperfect Mum
*** Trigger Warning Miscarriage *** For those of you who have experienced a miscarriage what were your symptoms & experiences? I have irregular periods so keeping track of ovulation and fertile days are hard but I use an app to try and keep track of that as well as days I have had sex. Back in...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Has anyone else had vulvar varicose veins during pregnancy ? If so how did you treat the pain and did they go away after birth ? I have one and it is extremely painful when standing for too Long, I have 20 weeks left I have seen my doctor about this I just want to hear other people’s stories
Anon Imperfect Mum
Vaginal birth after shoulder dystocia I’m pregnant with baby number 3, no issues with having a natural vaginal birth with my first (6 pound 6) but come the second, baby was posterior and after pushing for about 2 hours and not getting too far was helped out with the vacuum. Baby’s shoulders became...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’d like to hear from those who have had both a boy and girl. Obviously I know everyone is different but I’m just curious to see who has had both sexes and have had similar symptoms. I’m 10 weeks pregnant with my 3rd, already have two girls and this pregnancy so far is exactly the same as the last...
Anon Imperfect Mum
We are currently TTC baby #1 as a couple (though I have 2 children to a previous relationship). It has only been a couple of months, it took around 18 months to fall pregnant with my first and then 8 months with my second. My youngest is 6 so I’m concerned my age is beginning to have an impact (...