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Anon Imperfect Mum
My friend has 2 boys with her ex who now is with his ex. She has also moved on aswell. Well her ex has the 2 boys every 2nd weekend. The boys are 3 and 5. Lately the 5 year old dosnt want to go stay at his dads. He kicks and screams at drop off. Last time he said after a day that he wanted to go to...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Dear fellow IMs I am in a pickle and in need of sister community advice and support. I was a registered nurse for 8 years (and have not been able to meet all practice hours from the last 5 years to renew the registration. Are there any mums facing this? I have three special needs children, two...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Two weeks ago I went for my 18 week scan and found our beautiful baby had no heartbeat. I went to hospital and delivered Bub at 19 weeeks 1 day. We are still waiting for results and currently dont know if Bub was a boy or girl as growth stopped at 12w6d. How do you cope? I can’t sleep, struggle to...
Anon Imperfect Mum
What would you do if you found your half brothers and sisters through social media (ie scrolling through Facebook, insta) long story short;My mother was single parent, My biological father supported another family, chances are they know nothing of my existence, he has never wanted anything to do...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Trigger warning I'm ending it with my 2 year partner. It's been a hard first week. I posted a few days ago about this. My question is I don't know how to do it? I've told him we are going on a break walking away last weekend crying my heart out. His been so mean to me since day one he was cheating...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi all, I am just after some advice. My daughter is 4 and will be 4 when she starts school. I feel like it’s to young and will effect her later in high school ect. Did you send your child at 4 turning 5 or wait till the following year and why? Pls help
Anon Imperfect Mum
Apologies for the long post but looking for some ideas. I am a Mum of a very active 4yo boy and wife to an amazing husband. My husband works full time, and currently my son is in kindy full time. When my son was born I didn’t know or didn’t have the health conditions I do now. I am unable to work,...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm crying as I write this. I feel so lonely. So lost and confused where my life is going. I have a daughter who will be 3 in November. She has never meet her dad due to DV. I left when I was 13 weeks pregnant. I moved interstate to be with my dad as I had no where to go. But I started to feel...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Over the time we've been parents, I can tell my husband hasn't found his groove. When the kids are testing boundaries, his are always pushed. His way of "dealing with them" is to say things like, "stop that or I'll take you out the back and belt you". This is something he's never done but did have...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m really struggling with my second pregnancy, I’m exhausted physically and mentally. I’ve only got 4 weeks to go, but all I can’t help but do is feel guilty for our first child,(2.5 year old) we barely do any of the fun things we use to do as I physically feel sick and so goddam exhausted. So she...