Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
My daughter is turning 7 in 2019. She is a happy little person who does well at school. both education and socially and well adjusted. However, she still wears Night Naps. I didnt mind before, however, I see kids younger than her being fully toilet trained. I've tried waking her every few hours...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm wondering if my 3 year old needs councling? She has never meet her father. He wasn't a nice man and when I told him we were having a child (we had been together 2 years and living together with his other daughter) he told me I couldn't keep her. He was beyond words abusive. I almost lost my...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m so stuck, lost and confused at the moment. Any advise is appreciated. Ive been with my partner for almost 10 years now, we have 3 kids together. Sorry guys it’s a long one, Financially We run a small family business where he mainly labour’s and I admin, he had this business prior to myself and...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Any Aussie families moved to America? We have family over there and they made a lot of good points. I love change but i also fear it. Has anyone here done it successfully? We both have jobs that we can easily find over there.
Anon Imperfect Mum
Despite using birth control i found out i am pregnant yesterday. In a state of shock & denial and feel really alone. Its even hard to post anon because so many people have strong opinions but i cannot have another child, however id always been uncomfortable about abortions. I cant talk to my dr...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi, I’ll try make this quick. I’m lost in every way possible. I have 4 children, only 1 of which live with me now due to my relationship with my youngest sons father. He is an alcoholic and I tried to leave nz and move back home with all my children but he used the courts to have our son returned...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I am sitting here in tears as once again my 12yo girl hasn't eaten a thing at school. This has gone on for years. She has always been in the bottom percentile for her weight. She was failure to thrive baby born at 36wks and weighed 4lbs/1815gms. She is now 170cm, weighs 31.2 kgs and has a bmi of 10...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IM’s, There’s been a large amount of posts being shared on my FB from people saying to only give small gifts from Santa and then the rest say they’re from parents. Growing up both mine and my husband’s parents didn’t write any gifts were from us. All of them were from Santa and still are now we...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello mums I am just wondering if any other mums have become scared of things they otherwise were perfectly fine with after having kids. I used to ride horses and my husbands work is based around them but after having my babies I have become terrified of them. I have no idea why I feel this way I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I had mediation yesterday for access with my 19 month old daughter. There is a history of domestic violence so I was going for supervised visits. I initiated mediation as her father would see her every 6-8 weeks and if something didn’t go his way would threaten court. It was a shuttle telephone...