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Anon Imperfect Mum
Trigger warning Bear with me it's long. I feel like a child as I write this crying my eyes out. I don't know what to do any more I'm really at the point where I'm thinking of moving out and cutting my mother out of mine and my childs life for good. My mother since my dad left 5 years ago turned...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My husband and I have separated and I’ve been trying to find Info with no luck so I’m hoping the community can answer for me. And show me where to find info. It’s a very amicable split, and he is an amazing dad to our kids. I’m hoping to move about 2 hours away with the kids and I’ve been trying to...
Does the “happy family” actually exist? I grew up in a dysfunctional family, and now I have my own dysfunctional family and I’m wondering, is there a normal family? Does it exist? I’m a little over my own. I have a 6 yo with adhd and anxiety to an ex, who has him 50%, so that comes with its own...
Anon Imperfect Mum
The last 6 months have gone so quickly, and theirs many things I’ve been sweeping under the rug. I’ve been going about my daily life on auto pilot, and although my kids are happy, it’s defiantly time too get it together. Witnessing learned behaviours, wether it be a reflection of myself/partner, or...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have a 2yo daughter and her dad and I broke up when she was around 4 months. There is a history of domestic violence and other issues. We had mediation at the end of last year, I initiated it as I was over the inconsistency and wanted to encourage a more stable relationship. He attended mediation...
Anon Imperfect Mum
We are at a loss of what to do with our 8yo (almost 9). He is extremely disrespectful nearly all the time. We can’t even ask him to do the simplest tasks without him starting to scream at us mid way through the question. Timeouts consist of him screaming “Dad!” or “Mum!” “Why won’t you answer me...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IMs, not for Facebook please. A family member of mine lost her baby last weekend to SIDS. We are pregnant and it’s almost time to announce it. We had organised a cute photo with our other child involved and were planning on putting it on social media where we keep in contact with most friends...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I don't know how to handle this situation ......my ex husband has remarried ,that's not the problem .it happened6 months ago and he hasn't told our kids ,they don't know this woman ,that also isn't the issue . the problem is that it was deliberately not told to me or the kids and apparently all his...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Somebody give me some words of wisdom! My brain is melting out of my ears from the constant whinging coming from my three year old. He whinges and cries nearly all day every day! From the moment he wakes up until he goes to sleep. I try and find the reason for his whinging, which results in him...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I don’t really know how to say or ask what I’m feeling, but here goes.. Does anyone feel like they’ve peaked early in life and wondering what remains in store for them in future? Like what is there to look forward to? I purchased a home with my partner at 21, got married at 22, had our first child...