Questions

How do you tackle your elder preschooler when you have a newborn? Mother's guilt haunts me
Anon Imperfect Mum
Our son is 7 and his behaviour both at home and school is getting worse. He never listens, argues and complains constantly when asked to do something, back chats, and has recently started physically lashing out at his teachers. He has a younger sibling who he often hits or kicks when getting angry...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi mums, I need some advice. I have a 14 year old daughter who I believe is developing an eating disorder. She has lost a lot of weight. At the dinner table she pushes her food around a lot and tries to leave without finishing. Her friend today confided in her mum that my daughter is throwing up...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My son is having a birthday party. He invited lots of friends but doesn't want to invite my best friends son's. They used to be friends for about 4-5 years but grew apart. My son is only 11. I feel awful not saying anything because they have always been invited of his birthday party. He is adamant...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I had a child in my marriage, also had 2 other children prior. Anyway it didn't end well and avo had to be placed. Child protection were involved as he was an unpredictable risk whilst on drugs and alcohol he is extraordinary violent at the best of times and has been on charges prior for hurting my...
Anon Imperfect Mum
What do I do? I will give the shortest possible version to my the situation: for a little background to help u derstand as i honestly no longer know how to help my child. Sadly there are not many good schools around and they are all zoned unless private. ( i will not enter our public system for a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi, please no bashing. I just don’t know what to do here. I’ve separated from my partner, we have 2 sons together. He has also raised my daughter since she was a baby, he is all she knows. I was worried he would cut contact with her, which he hasn’t, but something he has said and chosen to do is...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Sorry thid might be long. I am at my wits end at the moment. I have a amazing 3 year old who I love so much but I am struggling to the point I don't know of I can keep going. She is well behaved for everyone except me I really feel that she hates me. I have to fight with her to do anything from...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi lovely ladies, I have four children, they have seen a lot over the years.... my husband can talk to me quite horribly, puts me down, is verbally, mentally and sometimes (though not recently) physically, emotionally abusive. I have put up with this for a long time, I suppose iv just learnt to...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My son is almost 27. I have been in and out of the mental health care system since he was 14. They were absolutely no help to us at all. At 17 he startes using ice. I had to send him to live with his father at 17 as I was terrified of his abusive mood swings that could happen for something as...