Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
A few months my partner and I made the decision to terminate an unexpected pregnancy. Upon deciding this we went for our ultrasound where we were told the sac was empty (7 weeks along). A few days before the termination I had cramping and blood discharge. Hubby believes that we were lossing it...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi Sisters! Just curious, is it out of the ordinary for a mum of 3 kids to work full time? Recently we have moved towns and I am getting a lot of negative comments from people surprised that I work full time. The comments themselves don’t bother me, I just wonder if it’s out of the norm now? My...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’ve found out my 12 year old son has been smoking. I don’t smoke. Apparently he and a mate have been picking up used cigarette butts and using them in a bong (made by the mate from a Gatorade bottle). He was caught by his 15 year old brother who came and told me about it. I’m horrified and don’t...
Anon Imperfect Mum
If you were moving and buying your children all new bedroom furniture as they were no longer going to be sharing would you buy your eldest (18) new furniture too. We have built a new home and a granny flat for her to live in. We are replacing the kids bedroom furniture/linen etc and I think we...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm mad! I just found out yesterday that my daughter's step mum is telling people I do "nothing" with her. I work Monday-Friday 8-4. She doesn't work. By the time I get home it's straight to making dinner as I don't get home until after 5 and I'm so tired after. I'm a single mum so no help. So no,...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have a gorgeous almost 4yo son. He is funny and cheeky. Over the last few months, he has started to complain about sore legs (I assume growing pains), headaches etc. He keeps saying 'im not feeling well today'. He's eating and drinking etc. Two days a week he gets looked after by grandparents (my...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello all, I'd like to say thank you to every one who could emithise with me about feeling like a bad mum. I will always feel shame for what iv done, but I have learned from it, and working on bettering myself for the sake of my kids. I spoke to my specialist about how iv been, and he's made...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IM’s. I need some help. Or just a little light shed on how I’m feeling. My husband and I have been together nearly 20 years. Since I was 15. We have kids and a house. But I’m just not in love with him anymore. And I have felt like this on and off for nearly 10 years. I have tried so hard to...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi Mummas, I feel like I'm going out of my mind. My ex (father of our son) is a master manipulator, he is the only person on this planet that knows how to tear me down and make me feel like sh#t. So here is my dilemma: My sons dad promised his son (6yrs old) a motorbike last Christmas,...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi all, I am curious to hear alternative names to "mum". Specifically for Step-mums but happy to hear all names that would be suitable for kids who are getting confused with mum 1 and mum 2 to say. Even though they came up with those names originally 🤣 EDIT: for clarification, I am the biological...