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Anon Imperfect Mum
Please help I am 12 weeks pregnant with twins and I found our last week that one of the twins has no heart beat. I am beyond devastated! This isn’t my first miscarriage but it has hit me so hard. I have 3 other children so it would have been baby number 4 and 5, completing our family! Now I feel...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Father of my 10 month old baby is into drugs and out on bail for assaulting someone with a weapon.He has twice weekly visits at his family members house, which was suggested by my solicitor. He has now started to drive around with baby in his car. He has so many enemies that are out to get him. I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Am I the A-Hole?? I need help on a situation between myself and my mother. Please keep in mind that there is much more to the story than what I'm writing here. There is a lot of hurt and wrong doing on both sides, it will just be a novel so I'm just sharing the immediate issue. There is a question...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi ladies, My husband and I have been trying to decide if we will do the whole Santa thing with our kiddo. I read an article awhile ago that stated it's bad to do Santa because it's lying to your children. I can see that. I too initially thought I wouldn't do Santa at all. I'm now reconsidering it...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My fiance and I are at out witts end. Our son is 2.5 years old and we cannot get him to sleep at night. He was a perfect sleeper until the 6 month regression and it has gotten gradually worse since then. We have a calm and consistent bedtime routine, bed, teeth, story, cuddles and bed by 7:30. He...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Desperately needing advice. I have two daughter's 13 and 10 to my ex husband, we split 10 years ago and to say it's been a rollercoaster is an understatement. We are now at a stage where my 13 year old no longer wants a relationship with her Dad and refuses any contact with him but my 10 year old...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Help please *content warning family violence* I don’t know what I am asking for or why I am writing this. I guess I feel stupid and tired and maybe some advice or similar situations or someone who knows what happens next would help. Last night the police were called to my residence I share with my...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I'm done with being a mum. I'm not quite sure what I'm asking here but I'm exhausted and drained. I'm a mum of 3 kids 8,5,3. I feel like I'm on a merry-go-round of breaking up endless fights, making 5000 snacks, laundry, cleaning etc over and over. I'm now that mum that openly swears in front of...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My son has ADHD and is also dyslexic with severe anxiety and school drop offs have become traumatic for both of us. The hardest thing I have ever done is walk away while the teachers hold him screaming for me to help him. It takes anything up to 30minutes for me to leave the school because he won’t...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I just want to go back to being a stay at home mum. I’m exhausted from work and still doing l the mum stuff. I don’t understand how people manage to maintain a house, work 40 hours, and still have time for their families. I feel like I’m constantly angry and stressed and out house is always trashed...