Questions

Anon Imperfect Mum
Kind of sad about how in society so many say well they could just leave from an abusive relationship. I once never understood until talking to counsellors what d v is. We, the sisterhood I believe is fractured and need to be more compassionate when we have so many high records of death due to DV...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My 11 yr old daughter is constantly asking for a mobile phone . She started yr 7 this yr and reckons she is the only one in her home room without a phone. She is always saying why don’t you trust me ? My reply I do trust you it’s the rest of the world . Then her argument is well you still don’t...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I feel like a failure as a parent. I was a single parent from the time my son was 3 years old, until I met my husband 3 years ago. I did everything for my son, gave him everything, took him around the world. It was just the two of us. He was a very bright student in primary school and never had to...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have been offered an amazing career opportunity overseas, however my daughters father is adamant that I cannot take my her overseas with me. My daughter has an good relationship with her dad and we have open communication and she can stay over with him whenever she wants, there is no parenting...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi IM,s Im in a bind and after some advice. Backstory is I am in a toxic job that has progressively destroyed me but i have stayed out of financial requirement. Recently an opportunity has presented itself for me to have an actual active career, in a purposeful, moral and meaningful position. I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hear me out. I'm not trying to be nasty so much as real about how I feel in a world where people still treat having children and their disruptiveness as a something you "can't help." This is why I do not have them myself. I understand if this is grounds for this taken down. Also, this is a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Trigger warning, DV Bare with me Im at an all time low. I thought years back after leaving my dv relationship pregnant things could never get any worse than this but I feel they have. This feeling of worthless of not wanting to be here any more is so strong I just can't shake it off. I'm seeing a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Not sure what I’m here to ask, maybe just to vent.. I have 5 kids. My older 3 with one ex, my younger 2 with another. My life is a mess and I’ve ended up in really shitty relationships. When I separated from my first ex, I had been seeing a psychologist, who helped me over the course of 2.5 years...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi sisterhood! I’m at the end of my rope. Covid has hit my family hard. I lost my job in disability support in June or 2021. This put a huge strain on us, but we were coping. Our landlord also felt the pinch and decided to move into the property we were renting, giving us 2 months to find somewhere...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My husband and I had our own small business. It is very physical and due to medical issues I can’t really help. I am also crap at being a housewife. The guilt is getting to me. He’s working 14-16 hours a day. How can I help? I look after the kids and give them all they need but my husband is...