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Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m worried about my mum. She’s had a horrible life the last 15 years and has seriously neglected her health. My dad left her for another woman when I was 8 and my sister was 1. My sister was diagnosed with severe mental and physical disabilities. My sister required 24hr care and mum gave up her...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How would you tell your four year old that grandma may not be with us for much longer. My mother in-law has inoperable lung cancer an has been having chemotherapy, she now has one of those Morphin sticks to help her feel comfortable when in pain. How ten year old understands but how do I prepare or...
Anon Imperfect Mum
2 years and 9 days ago my families world was turned upside down, ripped apart absolutely shattered. One of kids was a back seat passenger in a car accident. Resulting in him having a Traumatic Brain Injury. He is now non verbal, does not understand language, can not read or write (global aphasia)...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I’m about 8 weeks pregnant after having a miscarriage a year ago. I never really understood how traumatic a miscarriage is until I went through it myself and have not been the same since. This baby is very wanted but I feel like I can’t get my hopes up. We have had a dating ultrasound and saw a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I have been separated from my husband for just over a year. We had been together for 10 years and married for 6. In that time I had formed a close relationship with his family, predominantly his mum. I have an estranged relationship with my family, no siblings, and aunties, uncles, grandparents and...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Please help, I'd like to buy my sister and brother-in-law a plant or shrub or something in memory of their 3 little ones they lost last year. This will be replace buying Easter eggs So wanting something symbolic but special
Anon Imperfect Mum
I need help moving on from sexual abuse. 10 years ago I was sexually assaulted. And because of the circumstances, my story was picked apart, nobody believed me, I was even made fun of because of it. Ide just gotten out of a relationship. And was interested in someone new. He was a family friend. So...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My neighbour has just lost his wife to cancer. He is in his late sixties, early seventies. Retired. Their children are grown and have moved away. He has a small dog but is otherwise now on his own. We have always been friendly but my husband and I are both introverted and usually avoid social...
Anon Imperfect Mum
*trigger warning, infant loss* Hi mum's I'm hoping someone can help me I've made a very good friend at my daughter's school. My friends son is a twin however his brother died a few days after birth. I know from talking to his mum that his mum still struggles with this deeply (who wouldn't!!), so I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My step dad's birthday is coming up and he passed away last year but him and my 3yo were super close. Is it wrong to still celebrate his birthday and have a cake and everything else?