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Anon Imperfect Mum
My 9yr old son is struggling so much. He doesn’t have many friends and he doesn’t have an activity he is into. We have tried just about everything. Since lockdowns he has had meltdowns We have tried to get him help but most gps just brushed us off. Finally got one to listen but everywhere we got...
Anon Imperfect Mum
We have just started a relationship with my husbands adult daughter (short story…he didn’t know she was his daughter until well into her teens and they lived away). Surprise, paternity test and it’s a positive. Except she comes with LOTS of ’stuff’ from her life with her mother. There’s trauma,...
Anon Imperfect Mum
How did this happen? I mean I know how, but we were careful, I’m on contraception and haven’t missed it. We’ve only done the deed a handful of times (yes I know once is all it takes) and yet here we are, baby number three coming ten or eleven months after baby number two. How do I tell my husband,...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Autism in girls: How do I know if my daughter is on the spectrum? Our daughter is 7 and we've struggled with sensitive behaviors for most of her life. She is incredibly sensitive to sensory input like the way clothing feels, loud noise, smells, or brushing her hair will all bring her to tears,...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Without this sounding terrible, do any other mums out there just get nothing ‘nada’ out of ‘playing’ with their kids. I mean I love my kids to death, happy to take them to all and sundry school and social events etc but when I’m asked to play Barbie’s or sword fights I just cringe. I am not a...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi all, how long before you child got their period did they start showing signs? The last 3 months when I get my period it’s almost like my 9 year old has hers as-well just without actually bleeding. She’s extremely emotional and has meltdowns over minor things which she would usually shrug off...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hello! We are looking at moving interstate to the Mackay QLD region and was wondering if anyone can give me honest opinions. We like the idea of a country, lush greenery feel but still close to everything. We have 3 boys aged 12 and under so looking for a safe neighbourhood. Somewhere they can ride...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi. I don’t agree on how my husband deciplines our 12 yr old son. He is always yelling at him. My son is quite annoying and doesn’t listen. But every day they are just at each other and if I stick up for my son it causes an argument with my husband and I. My husband just has no patience with him. I...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Wishing to apply for my 4.5 year olds passport. Father isn't on birth cert however pays child support. Im filling out the passport application and have given all of dads known details, any idea on how long these applications take to process or advise on what additional supporting evidence I can...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My 12 year old daughter is getting a lot of ingrown hairs in her pubic region. I've suggested an exfoliation mitt but is there anything else we can do?