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Anon Imperfect Mum
I have an IVO against my ex, and he is currently on a good behaviour bond with several criminal charges pending. He has court ordered dinners with our 13 year old son once per week, and much to my dismay the court agreed to one night per fortnight for our son to stay over. Our 17 year old daughter...
Anon Imperfect Mum
OMG, my husband and I are so over our middle daughter (13). The other two are 15 and almost 11. Her bedroom and "shared" (with her younger sister) bathroom are putrid. The younger sister can't even use the bathroom at all. There are used pads left everywhere. After having a shower will just sit on...
Anon Imperfect Mum
It is so hard to have narcissistic traits and be a mother. I am constantly reminding myself that it’s not all about myself. I worked a super long, draining week at work, came home, and on my first day off my daughter had a high fever. I looked forward to relaxing and de-stressing but My days off...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My daughter has her birthday party coming up in December and we always invite all the girls in her class. There has been one girl that has been a bully towards my child this year and my daughter doesn’t want to invite her Do I not invite this child and exclude her from all her class mates which is...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Here is the post Hoping to get other parents experiences. I have a daughter who is in grade 4. So 10 at the beginning of next year. She has ASD level 2 and at times level 3 (psychologist said as she is verbal she won’t meet criteria for 3 but does go mute at times), ADHD, pathological demand...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Why do men get to decide when they’re a parent or not? Women are expected to bend over backwards to make shit work but men think it’s okay to excuse themselves from doing something if it’s “too difficult”. Example. Both my husband and I just got a new job, he doesn’t know his schedule yet, but it’s...
Anon Imperfect Mum
my 4 year old used to be the sweetest little guy, everyone would comment how empathetic and kind he was. he was cheeky, funny, loving etc etc. but lately it's like a switch has flipped and he just winges and whines over EVERYTHING. I'm lucky that there's no tantrums or anything like that, just...
Anon Imperfect Mum
I feel mislead- when my husband and I were dating he was so much fun, romantic, spicy, exciting, intriguing, thoughtful, etc. he went above and beyond for everything and made me feel like a million bucks. I never in my life felt so adored. Flash forward to now, and he is nowhere near what he was...
Anon Imperfect Mum
Hi sisterhood. I desperately need some objective ideas and ways to navigate a narcissist. He is an ex of 4 years. Very toxic, controlling and manipulative. Our children are early teens now. I have open and honestly tried every type of way to deal with his ongoing patronising behaviour, gaslighting...
Anon Imperfect Mum
My 10 year old son struggles socially at school but mostly at lunchtimes. He completely loses control when conflict arises, situations where they are all rough playing, and especially if he’s teased (and he could be teasing too!). He says it’s easier not to have friends or play because of this. He...