Bedroom Advice

Anon Imperfect Mum

Bedroom Advice

My Partner has said I need to be more “slutty” in bed.
I’m pretty open, I dirty talk, anal, all
Positions never say no to anything... advice please.

Posted in:  Relationships & Marriage

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Ask him what he means by that? Ask him to be specific. It’s not a particularly useful term as that would mean different things for everyone.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Not a really descriptive word for the situation. Maybe he just wants you to take control more often and him be used? Or wants to try pegging? Or BDSM?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Dress up and role play, pretend you’re a stripper and ask him to pay you etc.

Pour lube on your tits and make him massage them in.

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Tell him you want a devils threesome where it’s your choice who the other guy is?? What does he want? A Porn Star? Does he happen to watch a lot of porn?

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Huge amounts of porn to the point he would pick that over me. We go weeks without sex and his excuses are very much shit ones example “I’m tired”

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Sounds like he is bored in the bedroom. When you say you talk dirty, anal ect, do you actually enjoy it or do you act like it’s a task? I have found if my sexual partner isn’t into something and only does it because I suggested it I get bored and lose interest in being intimate with him. Maybe when he asks you to be more slutty he is referring to “wanting it”, coming on to him, enjoying it and showing him that he is pleasing you

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Anon Imperfect Mum

Ummm he’s addicted to porn and has a problem. I’d be giving him nothing until he gets help. That’s not how a marriage works!!!

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