Hello,
I can’t believe I’m actually doing this but I need to know how can you leave the person you love so much but know the relationship is toxic. When would the pain stop ? The fear of having that person be with someone else; how do you leave and move away: where do I start. Today is by far one of the worst . I can’t be with him anymore and he doesn’t want to be with me but why do I still try to be with him. When does it stop hurting after
When does it stop hurting
When does it stop hurting
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This is really hard but this is proof your brain is trying to tell your heart that it needs to move on. If this is amicable and you're not in any danger of physical or financial abuse then it will be a lot easier for you. Tell him that you want to separate, then decide between yourselves which one of you is to leave. Start separating cash now, deal with assets a bit later if possible. If you're the one going to leave then maybe you could stay with family for a little while until you find a house that suits your needs so you're not taking anything just to get out of there, only to want to move again a few months later. Keep your distance when you break up so you are not constantly reminded of him and what he's doing. If you share kids keep drop offs etc quick and to the point. Also put some ground rules in if you have kids like no new partners around kids unless been together so long. This will be hard but not as hard as staying in a loveless relationship for the rest of your life. Do what's right for you💕
When you realise hes a dropkick and you'll do so much better. Better without him. Better when you find a good man and have a good relationship. You have to really see how shit what he's offering is, and not want in on it.
I decided I deserved better. Then took it one day, one step at a time.
Of course it hurt, but after the hurt came so much happiness.
It's important to keep as busy as you can. Being busy helps you recover faster. Don't ever sit around brooding, just keep as busy as possible. Every single day. It's the only way to heal. I promise , the more busy you are, the faster you heal
Because it’s all part of grieving. You need to listen to him and set yourself free from your own pain. It might not feel like it now but it will get better. Stop thinking of him with someone else. Start thinking of you with someone else who loves you and treats you right. It will happen one day. Don’t think too much. Get this guy out of your life, he’s obviously no good for you. Stop listening to all the things you tell yourself and start thinking about all the positives and how happy you will be once he is gone from your life. Even when you can’t see it, eventually it will be a huge weight lifted off your shoulders and you will be free. Good luck.